Introverts. Those mysterious species of human creatures who sit in the corner of the room when the party is in full swing because they just can’t seem to socialize. It’s not because they can’t but because they can’t seem to be bothered to talk to people. If you have ever met an introvert and spent some quality time with them, you’ll know how amazing they are! They are wonderful people who can give you all the love and appreciation you need. Dating an introvert can be the best thing that can happen in your life!
1. They are loyal
First and foremost, they are loyal. Introverts choose the people they interact with very carefully. If you’re in their life, know that you’re very special. They tend to avoid too much contact with people at parties, which means less interaction with the and less (or a non-existent) chance to cheat on you. Introverts are those people who will bring loyalty back into fashion.
2. They are very introspective
An introvert always knows why he’s feeling a certain way because he spends a ridiculous amount of time thinking about his feelings and observations. Why is this so important to you? Well, if he’s thinking so much, chances are that you’re on his mind as well. Probably all the time. Thinking of you will be a pleasure and he will always bring up things he loves about you because he has thought about it for days already.
3. Less relationship chaos
Introverts are very cool, calm and collected. They hate to argue, which means that there’s less relationship drama. Why would you want to spend hours fighting or not talking at all if you could be watching a movie together instead? Your introverted partner will probably crave to sit down with you and talk everything through in a polite manner. He won’t yell or insult you. This is the magic of introversion.
4. They’re amazing listeners
In order to understand the world around them, introverts listen. If you love an introvert, throughout the entire relationship he will listen to you carefully, always wanting to know more about you. Introverts love to know stuff and that’s also why he wants to know everything about you. He will try to understand you and give you advice if you are looking for it.
5. They love the little things
Because of the fact that introverts are so observant, they notice everything, like if you covered him while he was sleeping or kissed him on the forehead while he was reading. Small things like these make an introvert’s heart melt. He won’t overlook these little everyday activities but rather be thankful for them.
6. You will have your own space
Introverts are very understanding and they give the space needed to their partner. They need space too and they understand if you need some time off. Your introverted partner won’t bother you with texts and phone calls but rather wait for you to feel better so you can cuddle again.
7. They give great advice
You have a problem? Well, the introvert you’re sitting next to will not only listen to you carefully but has probably read a book on that topic, read an article or simply thought it all through, so don’t worry—he has the advice you need to handle your problems!
8. They take care of themselves
Have you ever heard that you can’t love someone unless you love yourself? Well, introverts are what you need when it comes to this. They love themselves and they know how to take care of themselves, which is why they will know how to take care of your needs, too.
9. They hate small talk
If they could, they would avoid shallow conversations in general. Small talk just isn’t their thing. That’s why they’re so special! You will discover so many new things and you will feel like you’re a bit smarter every time you go out with an introvert because they will expand your mind to see new horizons.
10. They don’t joke around
If you’re dating an introvert, chances are that he has never said ‘I love you’ without meaning it. Introverts simply don’t like to joke around about their emotions and you will always know what’s going on inside of them. This doesn’t mean that they don’t have a sense of humor, it’s exactly the opposite! They just choose not to show that side of them.