One of the best things about a relationship is the early stage, when you are just getting to know each other.
It just feels so exciting. It’s like getting to know your new best friend, but with those lovely butterflies in your stomach that make you blush!
The sparks fly and there is nothing in the world that you would rather do than talk about life with your new guy for hours. You want to hear his thoughts on any subject under the sun.
You actually want to hear all of his thoughts on just everything. And above all, you want to know exactly what he thinks about you and how it feels when he looks you in the eye.
Honesty is so important in a relationship. In fact, if you think a happy, healthy relationship without honesty is possible, you may not be ready for a serious relationship yet.
But the truth is that every single person in the world hides a few secrets – even from their partner. No relationship is 100% honest at all times.
Here’s the secret that your husband could hide according to his zodiac sign.
Fire sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius): He will be more honest with you than most guys
Fire signs all have some strong personality traits that are very similar. However, they can behave very differently in relationships.
It’s hard to generalize the kind of secret these guys may hide. So what can you expect in terms of secrets and honesty when you are with a ram, lion or shooter?
Well, it definitely changes based on its zodiac sign. These characters can sometimes be unpredictable, so it can be difficult to know exactly what you’re getting into with one of these guys beforehand!
But don’t worry, they don’t tend to lie to you any more than any other sign in the zodiac.
In fact, some of them are even more inclined to be honest with you than men born under another element. In the end, everything depends on the individual person.
Just because it’s a fire sign doesn’t mean you can find out all of its hidden secrets exactly – but knowing that it was born under this element can definitely give you some important clues.
Do you want to know what might be going on in his head? Just keep reading.
Aries: He still thinks about his past affairs
Okay, first we want to make it clear: just because a ram thinks about his past affairs does NOT mean that he is thinking about leaving you for an ex.
In fact, while Aries have a reputation for being hard-working, this is only a problem BEFORE entering into a relationship.
The thing is, if an Ariesman says that he really wants to be with you, he will be very loyal and remain loyal.
A ram won’t start a relationship unless it’s 100% behind it – these guys don’t settle down with anyone unless they really love the person!
However, it is also true that Ariesmen still think of old affairs after they have a relationship – even if they have the full intent to stay with the current woman forever.
They tend to let their thoughts wander and sometimes their daydreams wander to the ghosts of past friends, and then they can’t help but miss them for a few moments and wonder how they are doing today.
It’s nothing serious – but he’ll never admit it.
Leo: He values money more than relationships
Good luck getting a lion to admit his dirty little secret – but now the cat is out of the bag.
Don’t get us wrong, there are enough lionmen out there to outgrow this tendency, but for those who don’t, many of their future relationships could be destroyed.
So when you’re with a lion, it’s best to be aware of the possibility that he might see things that way before things get too serious. So here is what your lion man might hide from you: money could be more important to him than your relationship.
We know that this is the last thing in the world that any newly in love woman (or man!) Wants to hear.
Realizing can break your heart that the person you care about means money and expensive material things more than your relationship. However, if this applies to your lion man, the signs are easy to see.
Does he cancel plans to work overtime? Does he refuse to spend money on gifts for you or nice dates together? These are two warning signs for lion men.
Sagittarius: Sometimes he feels trapped
If you actually managed to get a fun-loving marksman to settle down: Congratulations! This is a great achievement for every woman, especially if you are not a shooter yourself.
It takes a lot for these men to choose to stay with a single woman. So he wants a serious relationship with you, you can pat yourself on the shoulder – you have to be a really special woman! And you’ve probably found a very special man too.
When a shooter is with the right woman, the relationship is never boring – the next adventure is always waiting around the corner! However, your marksman could still hide a special secret.
In truth, even in a super happy relationship, a Sagittarius will have moments when he feels trapped and wonders if he wasn’t happier in his old, independent and carefree life as a single.
It is simply in its nature to ask, “What if?” If you can’t accept that, you’re definitely better off avoiding shooters altogether because they don’t break this habit as they get older.
Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn): They are quite difficult to read
A dishonest earth sign is difficult to imagine, right? On the surface, it looks like they are incapable of lying. It’s just not their style, is it? After all, they have pretty high demands on their own behavior. Why should they allow themselves to betray them with dishonesty?
The thing is – they won’t lie to you directly. They don’t see “hiding” or lying through omission (that is, simply not telling you until you specifically ask for it) as something particularly bad.
They believe that it is necessary to protect the relationship and keep everything stable.
So what kind of secrets do these guys hide? It can be hard to say – as you probably know when you’re with a bull, a virgin, or an ibex; they can be very difficult to read.
Most men are already trying to avoid being super emotional or showing their feelings openly, but earth signs are a completely different house number here.
But it’s okay if you can’t read your guy’s mind. That is exactly what we are here to help you with. Earth signs can be great partners, but that doesn’t mean they’re always perfect.
Taurus: He misses his old habits
Bulls can be very attached to their habits. They like to have certain processes and stick to them without questioning them. Even if this may seem a little exaggerated to some people, it is simply an attitude that helps them to develop.
Obviously, it can mess things up when you start a relationship. In fact, it can change your whole life!
Suddenly, the time the bullman would normally spend in the gym, reading a new book after work, or just doing homework at the beginning of the week has become time that he could spend with you.
He strays from his routines and at first that doesn’t bother him because he likes to be with you.
In truth, a bull man always needs a balance between time with you and time in which he does his own thing. If you don’t achieve this balance, he will end up with some negative thoughts and feelings.
He’ll miss his old routines, but feel like he can’t admit it to you because he’s afraid you’ll get mad at him.
Virgo: It frustrates him if you make small mistakes
It’s no secret that Jungfrau men are among the greatest perfectionists in the zodiac (don’t worry, we’ll get to the ibex right away – they’ll also get their fat off). They pay attention to every little detail, no matter what the situation.
Sometimes they drive themselves a little crazy to want to do everything perfectly! And with this attitude they drive you a little crazy when you are with one of them.
The thing about Jungfrau men is that if you want to put pressure on yourself to be as close to perfect as possible, we won’t stop you. You can live your life the way you want – do what makes you happy and happy, right?
But the truth is that young men tend to put that pressure on other people, and that can be pretty frustrating. Some of us are just a lot more relaxed and that’s okay.
Your Jungfrau man could be totally annoyed with you if you make small mistakes – he won’t always tell you, but you might notice it by his behavior alone. Unfortunately, that’s just something you have to accept when you’re with a Jungfrau man.
Capricorn: He’s worried that your relationship will stand in the way of his goals
Look, that could be a somewhat controversial statement, but since we’re already dealing with honesty, we can stick with it. You know that when magazines these days always talk about having “everything at once”? You can combine everything, right?
It’s a nice idea, but any responsibility you take on will take a certain amount of time in your life – it just can’t be avoided.
“All at once” is actually a meaningless thought – there are always times in life when you have to make a choice.
And that’s what Capricorn men often really struggle with. They really want to have a relationship, but at the same time they know that time has to be spent and they don’t want to be distracted from their other goals.
That is why they sometimes end up in a difficult situation. They enter into a relationship with the idea that after falling in love, they can go back to some of their old habits and spend more time on their careers.
But that’s not the case – you can’t just ignore your relationship! They may be concerned that being with you is in the way of their goals.
Air Sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius): You have difficulties with honesty in a relationship
When it comes to relationships, there are definitely a couple of air signs that have a… let’s say “questionable” reputation. Or let’s face it: If you know a thing or two about astrology, you probably have your doubts about relationships with air sign men!
But if you fell in love with one, don’t worry. We will not tell you that with them all hops and malt are lost.
However, some of them definitely have certain difficulties with honesty. In fact, they tend to hide more than one secret in relationships.
However, if you figure out what you’re getting into beforehand, it won’t be such a big deal if these problems arise in the future – and isn’t that the case no matter what zodiac sign your friend has?
So why do air signs have special difficulties with honesty in relationships?
It’s just really about their personality – they are usually used to having irons in the fire everywhere and refusing to settle down, start relationships for all the wrong reasons, or just stay and do it for a long time, what you want.
But it is absolutely possible for these men to start a happy relationship – you just have to be prepared!
Twins: He misses being single and flirting
Your twin man may think he’s hiding it well, but you may have noticed it already. The thing is – he will never admit it to you directly because he knows it would hurt your feelings.
In truth, twins are so used to being single and doing their own thing that even in a happy relationship, he still has moments when he misses “the good old days”.
It becomes nostalgic and cannot change that. But as we just explained, even if you notice that he gets a little weird about past relationships, he’ll probably never tell you what he really thinks about it.
If that happens now and then, it’s not a big deal – if he really loves you, he’ll probably even feel guilty for it.
But if you notice that he seems to be spending a lot of time thinking about the past, he may just not be ready for a real relationship yet. When it’s time to let go, you’re better off as a single.
Libra: He cares how you two “look” together
Ouch. We admit it could hurt now – but if you want to be with a Waagemann, that’s just one of the weaknesses you have to accept. After all, no relationship is just sunshine and twittering birds.
So what do we mean by that? If we say that Waagemann worries about how the two of you “look” together, it actually means that he sometimes gets too attached to the outside.Strong thoughts newsletter
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He starts to think that people look at you both at an angle when you look too different.
Long story short, these men often worry too much about what others think and that can do great harm to relationships if they’re not careful – especially their romantic relationships.
If you get the feeling that your Waagemann spends too much time worrying about what other people think of your relationship, it is definitely time for a serious conversation.
Some of them manage to overcome this fear – and others don’t. If it turns out to be one of the latter, you may have to step back and give it room to grow.
Aquarius: He doesn’t like being a “shoulder to cry on”
This is one of the biggest problems that watermen (and their partners) face in relationships. These men are used to being independent.
Not only do they rarely get into serious relationships, they usually only have a small, steady circle of friends.
They do not have a particularly active social life, and that is not due to a lack of options – they are simply self-sufficient and often prefer to do something on their own rather than trying to get people together for their plans.
So when an Aquarius enters into a relationship, he easily panics at the thought of “being there for you” whenever you need him. He’s not super emotional and doesn’t always know exactly how to do it when you’re upset.
Of course, he’ll keep his mouth shut about it – every man knows that if he tells her that he doesn’t want to hear her problems, it will immediately drive a woman away.
If he wants the relationship to work, he’ll just have to learn to work harder and be a better man if you’re not feeling well.
Watermark (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces): He will try not to scare you away
If you are with a man with a watermark, you no doubt already know that you will ride an emotional roller coaster every now and then. And you also know that it can be an open book on some days, but simply needs privacy on others – and that’s okay!
Don’t we all feel that way sometimes? However, there are a few things he may prefer to shut up about for the duration of the relationship if possible.
As we said, these signs can be very closed if you want – so don’t expect to be able to get any secrets out of it.
If he wants to keep something to himself, he will do it too.
But that doesn’t mean we can’t give you some clues as to what his secrets might be! And don’t worry, it’s not too dubious.
These men are sensitive souls and they want to treat you well and do their best to make you happy.
We’ll tell you a few things he may be taciturn about – the answers may surprise you, but don’t let them scare you away!
Cancer: Sometimes he feels that you are using his kindness
You probably know by now that Cancer men are cute – they could even be the sweetest sign in the zodiac. So we can’t blame you for falling in love with you!
If you’ve ever had a cancer man as a friend, it’s honestly hard to get used to another sign again. This is because they are so attentive and caring about all the little details that other men would normally overlook or even forget.
But the thing is – there are reasons why they often choose a cancer woman. Yes, women of all zodiac signs are after them, but they want to be with a woman who treats them as well as they would treat the woman! It’s only fair, isn’t it?
So let’s say that in the relationship you are the one who is not so warm and cozy. So you may have to put more effort into it because your cancer man’s secret is this:
Sometimes he feels like you’re taking advantage of his kindness, and because he’s almost TOO nice, he doesn’t know how to address it! After all, he doesn’t want you to feel bad. You should pay close attention to his feelings.
Scorpio: He feels that you are not taking his emotions seriously
Here’s another quick fact of astrology that’s not exactly a big secret – Scorpio men are the most emotional types in the zodiac. Yes, they outperform all other watermarks, even fishmen!
So you could expect it to open up and tell you everything. And most of the time you’d be right because he’ll do it pretty regularly.
However, this is not always the case, even Scorpio men occasionally keep something to themselves. And that’s because:
He will keep certain things secret because he is afraid that you will not take his feelings seriously. And that creates another problem because he won’t even tell you he’s scared.
Scorpio men are often taught to be ashamed of their feelings; So when you open yourself up to someone, you sometimes regret it.
They sit there and ask themselves: “Did I say too much? Did I go too far? Oh no, I’m sure she thinks I’m crazy. ”
You will definitely have to reassure him that this is not the case at all and that he can tell you everything that is on his mind – no matter what.
Pisces: He is afraid that you will fill him up
Fishmen (and fishwomen) often feel very insecure. This sign is very sensitive in a world that often looks down on emotional, introverted people.
They often feel a bit of an outsider at a young age – even if they have some good friends, they never feel part of the “cool” people and they may have difficulty finding a group to which they really belong .
So when they finally find someone they can get along with straight away, it feels like a miracle at first.
It is love at first sight! But over time, doubts may arise. They ask: “Is it too good to be true? Does this woman really love me as much as she says? Can’t do it. ”
A fisherman may worry that you think you are “playing outside his league” or that he is simply not good enough for you. His secret fear?
He thinks that you get tired of him and leave him – maybe without warning. It is not his fault that he has trouble trusting other people – in truth, many people have probably not treated him very well.